One of my biggest LinkedIn pet peeves is when people who I’ve never met send me connection requests. Most of them have no personalized message at all (another pet peeve of mine). Some are accompanied by super salesy messages. Others say things like (these are real messages I’ve received):
- “LinkedIn suggested you as a marketing leader with whom I should connect. if you are open to it.”
- “I think we can mutually help each other, let’s connect.”
- “You seem interesting, let’s get to know each other.”
- “I want to tell you about a terrific new product we have”
- “Came across your profile here and noticed we had LinkedIn groups in common, was intrigued and would love to connect. I see your an attorney in New York. Excited to learn more about what your up to professionally.” (Just oy vey on this one. Note: I am NOT a lawyer, which is clearly noted on my profile, and the grammar errors with “your” instead of “you’re” are just sloppy – there is no room for careless mistakes here. Also, having “LinkedIn groups” in common is not a reason to send a connection request.)
- “I developed a method that gives you many leads and more on LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter and many others in 24 hours! I would love to run a quick test 🙂 What is your PHONE NUMBER?” (Note: So many things wrong with this one as well – but especially the exclamation point, the smiley face and the all caps, not to mention the false promises!)
Um, how about no to ALL OF THESE. Please make it stop.
Let’s be honest, if I’ve never met you before, why would I want to connect with you this way? LinkedIn is a professional network to grow relationships with people you already know. It’s not a place to mine for new connections and find leads, although I know some in the sales profession may disagree with me.









